Essays

Why Shouldn’t My Kids Have Their Mother’s Last Name?” TIME.

“That’s How it Works When You’re a Woman on the Internet.” Men Yell at Me.

Over and Over Again.” The Audacity.

In Matters of the Heart, We’re in This Together.” The New York Times.

More Than Friends.” Gay Magazine.

The Weather.” Gay Magazine.

Dear Childfree Person: You Pretty Much Get It.” The Butter.

On Pregnancy and Privacy and Fear.” The Rumpus.

Pregnancy: Endnotes.” Brain, Child Magazine.

In All Possible Worlds.” The Butter.

Why I Refuse to Enlist in the Mommy Wars.” Brain, Mother.

Birth Story.” The Rumpus.

Things I Watched Die.” The Collagist.